tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6342760010530419040.post1770123665033537216..comments2023-08-05T08:40:18.976-04:00Comments on Beauty is in the eye of love.: Choosing sides...or not.Healingprosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05497114238722269412noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6342760010530419040.post-50015664321177981422009-01-13T19:06:00.000-05:002009-01-13T19:06:00.000-05:00This is such a touchy and hot subject in the gay c...This is such a touchy and hot subject in the gay community. Truly, it's to each his or her own. I have identified as lesbian now going on six years. Before that I tried the whole bi thing simply because it was easier to come out and say "i'm bisexual" over "i'm a lesbian". But my heart was not teally into bisexuality. My attraction to men was so long gone I barely remember the days. But there once was a time....so it's a process. You are who you are at any given time and nothing besides your own thoughts, feelings and desires should influence it. Now as far as all of those damn labels go (stud fem etc) if u read my blog, u already know how i feel about those. To me they're cool just to have something to identify with. But labels become severely dangerous when people use them as handicaps, attempting to force someone to stay inside a tiny bubble and ostracising them if they don't perfectly fit into the category. But as long as you are comfortable, as long as you can identify as whatever fits you then that's all that matters.Chanelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17877058968113836520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6342760010530419040.post-12979904994072926472009-01-12T23:01:00.000-05:002009-01-12T23:01:00.000-05:00-shawtie busa bus back @ it!- labels blow. i nev...-shawtie busa bus back @ it!- <BR/><BR/>labels blow. i never understood the reasonin behind it nor will i. i dont label myself...wish i could change the 'label' part in dl to watever i wanted. too many people try to place others in boxes JUST BECAUSE...its like you HAVE to be femme or a stud. im in between. im not HARD on the stud side just like to be casual..[think u kno what i mean]. but why label urself just because others do....not SAYIN u will...which im sure u wont. but step outside the box...and whatever u hear...there is NOTHING wrong w/being bi...ugh im tired of damn studs bashin bi's. lol. just wanted to put my 2 cents in. love who u are...and others will as well. i do. =D u my SHAW busta!! lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com